When your love is unrequited, nothing hurts more. But at the same time we thrive on it. We wait pateinetly for the object of our affections to see us, though they never do.
We put ourselves in situations to get hurt, all to see if they come to our rescue, but lesson learned, they never do.
I don't understand what it is we see in this kind of relationship.
The ones where the minute we see him, or her, we drop everything, staring idly as the pass by, while awkward looks are recieved from those walking by at the same time. These are the ones who we would do anything for, to the point where we drive ourselves insane.
What is it we're looking for? A challenge? An accomplishment? An opportunity? Whatever it is, we never do find it, and though I know I'll continue to seek it out. The buck stops here.
I will not be defined by the way I look at him, but by the way he stares at the ground, stares passed me, and holds hands with his true love.
What defines you?
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its true when you like someone that all you care about is how the other person thinks of you, but that doesnt define you... attraction is just something that happens, no one really earns it or deserves it. granted, realistically some are more attractive than others but you really have to understand that you take yourself out of the picture when you dont need to. whats more is that people are attracted to confident people even if they dont "deserve" the self-esteem...so i mean when you think about everything, theres no point in thinking fatalistically because its going to make things worse.... you should just take everything in stride even though you know you're just human and see what happens from there...
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